Friday, October 12, 2007

Be 4

"Mama, what is my number," she asks.
"Four," I reply. "You are four years old."
"What's next?"
"Five."
"And, what's next?"
"Six."
"And, what's next?"

Oh, my impatient little darling, let's just be four for a while!

Be 4 - you realize that I don't know everything, that I'm imperfect, that I'm not really heroine material.

Be 4 - you think that you're "too big" for hugs, for kisses, for being squeezed so hard that it's as if I'm trying to take you back inside of me.

Be 4 - the innocence slips from your eyes, and you slip from my hands out into the world.

Let's just be four for a while. Four is my favorite number.

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25 comments:

MomOf3 said...

We want our kids to grow up and be independent but then they grow up and are independent.... I'm off to hug my three kiddos whether they like it or not!

Summer said...

I love this very unique entry!

Mama Zen said...

Thanks, Summer!

And, hug them tight Mom of 3!

boogiemum (www.boogiemum.com) said...

What a awesome post! Very creative and so so true. You are going to make me cry...

Mama Zen said...

Thank you, Boogiemum!

Corey~living and loving said...

awwwwwwwwww that is fabulous. I love it soooooo very much. Very creative and sooooooooo true!

Ursula said...

Yep-at this age we're Wonder Woman...too bad it can't stay that way!

Jennifer said...

Four is my favorite number too.

I don't have much experience with 4 year olds. I imagine it will be so much fun though.

Shawn said...

Oh! Nice one. Love the play on words.

MomOnTheGo said...

I liked the play on words and your wisdom in it. We have a precious but short time before they grow too old for us, don't we? My little one is struggling with the idea of being "grown up" - someimes she wants to be and sometimes she doesn't - and I tell her she is just right as she is and always will be.

Damselfly said...

I love this!

Phyllis Sommer said...

great post. i love the way you put it...just be your age and love it. that's all we can do.

tiff said...

What a fantastic post! I loved it...all of it. Sometimes it seems they wish their lives away, doesn't it? I am forever wishing they would stop growing too.

Jo said...

Fabulous, just fabulous.

Mama Zen said...

Thanks, everyone!

bella said...

Beauttful.
Right now thee is my favorite number. :)

Jordan (MamaBlogga) said...

You reminded me that when we're little, we always want to grow up faster, too. It's not just a mom problem!

Thanks for participating, and thanks for taking the time to slow down!

mom2amara said...

I'm always amazed by how our daughters are so similar! Amara's favorite numbers are always what age she is. And she is so looking forward to turning five -- and she just turned four! Why can't she just enjoy now?

JIll said...

Yes, isn't it great to be a heroine. I hope to keep that for as long as I can. I think you lose it for a bit, but know that I am a mom, my mom is my hero all over again.

Madame M. said...

Simpmle but very sweet. I'd give you a hug if I could.

Mama Zen said...

Baby Puppy seems to be taking these huge leaps toward independence. Sometimes, it's hard to resist the urge to try and hold her back.

The Daily Rhythm said...

aww, I love this post! So sweet, and so very true...my oldest just turned 3 and growing way too fast for me. It's exciting and sad all at the same time.

Mama Zen said...

It IS exciting, but so fast!

Jill said...

My daughter is 4-I wish I could freeze her like this-so cute, cuddly, hilarious, inquisitive-the list is endless!

Love those 4 year olds!!

Mama Zen said...

You said it, Jill!